kNOw MORE and R.O.A.R.

 

Don't be a bystander, R.O.A.R- Reach Out and Respond...

Oh and while ya-at-it get engaged with some exciting events being held to fight against sexual violence:

"Don't be a Zebra," scheduled Sept. 10, from 6 – 8 p.m. in the Student Union Theater and will focus on how to intervene in sexual violence how not to be a bystander.

"Take the Pledge" on Sept. 11. From 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. in the Student Union, students will have the opportunity to make a pledge against sexual violence.

"Rape Aggression Defense Class (RAD),"  UPD presents on Sept. 13 and 14. The two-day class is open to women only and free to Southeastern students and employees. The Saturday hours are 9 a.m. to 4 p.m., while Sunday hours are 12 to 5 p.m. 

Learn how you can kNOw MORE!

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It's Friday night, and so far, things have been pretty dull. Most of your friends went home, there's not too much going on around campus, and to top it all off, you've seen everything that you possibly could want to see on Netflix. So you decide that you'll just watch TV. Your roommates walk in, and they say they're heading out to the bar to "party hard". They ask if you have plans. You've never been around your roommates when they were drunk before, and you don't really drink either, so you're a little uncomfortable. But you agree to go despite feeling uneasy because you have nothing better to do.
 
After a few hours at the bar, your roommates are drunk and you're feeling a little tipsy yourself. You figure that you should go home because it's getting late. On your way out, you run into your crush that you've been dying to talk to, and decide that you'll stick around to be with them. You think to yourself, "A few more drinks wouldn't hurt." Everything after that is a little hazy...

One of your roommates calls you the next morning. You realize that you're not in your room, but someone else's. They start telling you that you went home with somebody that you met at the bar last night, and you start to remember that things apparently got physical fast. Your crush took advantage of you. You didn't want any of this to happen...you're upset...and you wish that it could all just go away.
 

Stories above are not uncommon in today's University setting.

 

According to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center1,  here are a few statistics to think about:

  • An estimated 20-25% of students experience sexual assault in college. That is approximately 1 in 4 persons. Estimated by reports only...it could be even higher.1

  • 90% know the person who assault them.1

  • 3-6% of those assaulted are male.1

 To prevent situations from turning out negatively, it is important to understand a few key elements of the above story- Consent and Respect.

 

What is consent?

Sexual activity requires consent, which is defined as voluntary, positive agreement between the participants to engage in specific sexual activity.2 

 Communicating Consent

  1. Consent to sexual activity can be communicated in a variety of ways, but one should presume that consent has not been given in the absence of clear, positive agreement.2  

  2. While verbal consent is not an absolute requirement for consensual sexual activity, verbal communication prior to engaging in sex helps to clarify consent.2                       

  3. Communicating verbally before engaging in sexual activity is imperative. However potentially awkward it may seem, talking about your own and your partner's sexual desires, needs, and limitations provide a basis for a positive experience.2                   

  4. Consent must be clear and definite for each participant at every stage of a sexual encounter. The absence of "no" should not be understood to mean there is consent.2  

  5. A prior relationship does not indicate consent to future activity.2

Q: If someone has been drinking or under the influence of drugs, can they give consent? 

A:NO! A person who is asleep, mentally, or physically incapacitated, either through the effect of drugs or alcohol or for any other reason, is not capable of giving valid consent. 

The use of alcohol or drugs may seriously interfere with the participants' judgment about whether consent has been sought and given.  At all stages of sexual contact, you must have clear consent.


How to Respect? 

NO, MEANS NO!  Respect is the courteous regard for one's own or another person's decisions. If someone does not want to or is apprehensive to give consent to have sexual relations than you are to respect that person's wishes. Not doing so may be considered a violation. 


We encourage any member of Southeastern Louisiana University community who experiences any form of sexual misconduct to contact the Office of Student Conduct regardless of when or where the act occurred.  We can connect you to valuable resources that assist you in recovering from an experience and in deciding what options may be available, such as on-campus counseling, the student conduct process, the criminal justice system, or civil courts.


  1. If violations occur and you or any other member of the University community would like to file a complaint please REPORT IT!                                                                                 

  2. If you ever feel unsafe or threatened at this University immediately call our University Police Department at 985.549.2222. Blue Phones are also available around campus for emergency situations.                                                                                             

  3. Counseling is available for all students at Southeastern Louisiana University at no cost. If you would like to speak to a counseling professional about a situation you may call 985.549.3894 to schedule an appointment.


Please visit these valuable resources below for additional information regarding Violence Prevention:

  

rainn.org             national sexual violence resource center

 

Love is respect logo                           One in Four logo

 

               Louisiana Foundation Against Sexual Assault logo                          CDC logo    

 

No More logo 

 

  

1National Sexual Violence Resource Center-- NSVRC.org

2Adapted from Northwestern University--Defining Sexual Assault and Consent, http://www.northwestern.edu/womenscenter/issues-information/sexual-assault/defining-sexual-assault.html